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What is an alternative if I don’t want a divorce?

On Behalf of | Dec 10, 2024 | Divorce

There are those in the Buffalo area who might see a need to live apart from their spouses but who do not want a divorce.

  • There are some who might have strong moral or religious objections to divorce.
  • There are others who may just want some more time before divorcing.
  • On a related point, some might be trying to hold out hope for reconciliation.
  • Sometimes, a parent might worry how a full-fledged divorce will affect their children.
  • There are sometimes financial or other benefits to remaining legally married, but a person in this situation may still require legal protection.

Under New York law, a couple can get a legal separation by living apart and filing a separation agreement with the appropriate court.

The separation agreement, which the spouses can enforce legally, can cover all the items that a couple might address as part of a divorce proceeding. For example, a separation agreement can divide the couple’s property and make provisions for spousal support.

A big difference between a divorce and a legal separation is that the couple will remain legally married even after they file their separation agreement with a court.

There are some important considerations with respect to separation agreements

There are some other differences between separation and divorce.

One significant consideration is that spouses must agree to a legal separation. If either spouse will not sign a separation agreement, the only way a spouse can fully protect themselves may well be a divorce.

As is the case with any family law agreement, negotiating a separation agreement will require some give and take on the part of both spouses. With the right negotiation strategy, though, a spouse may be able to accomplish their goals as well as protect their financial and family interests.

Those who think a legal separation might be right for their situation should explore this option and their alternatives thoroughly.