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Is surrogacy only for married couples in New York?

On Behalf of | Aug 9, 2026 | Gestational Surrogacy

For years, building a family through surrogacy in New York was a complex legal hurdle. Under New York’s landmark Child-Parent Security Act (CPSA), gestational surrogacy is legal and available to eligible intended parents regardless of marital status.

Who can pursue surrogacy under New York law?

New York law allows single men and women to pursue gestational surrogacy individually. Unmarried partners in committed relationships can also sign agreements to become co-parents. Married opposite-sex and same-sex couples qualify as well, though state law requires both spouses to join the agreement unless they live apart or are legally separated.

Crucial legal rules for unmarried intended parents

While marital status won’t hold you back, the CPSA outlines clear statutory guidelines that all intended parents must meet, such as:

  • Parentage orders: You can get a court order before the birth to be named as the legal parent on the birth certificate without needing to adopt.
  • Genetic connection: You don’t have to be biologically related to the child. You can use donor eggs, sperm, or embryos.
  • Residency and citizenship: At least one parent must be a U.S. citizen or permanent resident, and either a parent or the surrogate must have lived in New York for at least six months.
  • Legal representation: The parents and the surrogate should each have their own New York lawyer to protect their interests.

If you are exploring parenthood solo or with an unmarried partner, New York offers one of the most progressive and legally secure surrogacy frameworks in the nation.

Taking steps toward parenthood

Building a family through gestational surrogacy is a rewarding journey. However, learning about contracts, donor agreements and pre-birth court orders requires a thorough knowledge of state statutes. Seeking the guidance of an experienced New York surrogacy attorney can help protect your parental rights and to navigate the process more smoothly.